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Kayla's post about that girl who died made me posting this...Some days ago I learned from my sister that a girl we both know lost her boyfriend. He crashed 20 m down in an elevator and was dead. Why was that supposed to happen? This was so unnecessary. I'm so deeply sorry for that girl. They have been together for five years and planned to spend their whole life together. She seems so strong. She lives in the same appartment, goes back to work, goes for a walk with her dogs...I don't know if I could go on with my normal life. He will never come back to her. Never. http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif That totally gets me. I mean, there are people out there who want to kill themselves and there are people like this guy who don't ask for death and they get killed. It's just not right. I can't get it out of my mind. I thought a lot about my life and it's just ridiculous what I'm worrying about if you compare it to what that girl has to go through. Okay, that's her problem and we have our problems, but it's something to think about anyway...
Thanks for listening.
~Carol~
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"I can't deny a passion for you, as long as I try it always breaks through. I'm missing you crazy, it's breaking me down..." I MISS YOU, SHANIA!!!
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Jasmin
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"But every fool´s a lonely fool and such a fool am I. `Cause every night I think of you and every night I die..."
We miss you, Shania!!! Please come back soon!!!
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR BABY!!!
La Diablesa
06-11-2001, 9:58am
http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif yeah is too hard lost a friend or a family but more when it´s too young, i always say that the only think haven't solution is the death so if you're sad bad or deppressive you should try to think that things can change always for better cause only when you die is when really all is over.
8 years ago the brother of one of my friends,he was one of my brother best friend died in a car accident, was one of my sadest moments in my life he was too sweet nice and full of life , he always was joking with me he love have fun and this was who killed him, he was in a car with 4 friends and they came back to moraira(was in summer) to after had a party nite and they were drunks maybe alcohol, maybe too tired or probably both things but they had a crush against nobody and he was the only who died, the other 4 guys were too lucky but maybe not cause they have to live with this all theirs life especially who drove the car.
well life is wonderful sometimes and life is hard too but this is the life that we have to live and we should try do it better possible cause you never know when will be your turn to leave
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oh,oh,oh,me vuelvo totalmente loca-olvida que soy una señorita-camisa de hombre-falda corta.
oh,oh,oh,realmente soy salvaje-siiii lo hago con estilo-oh,oh,oh pasa a la accion,siente la atraccion,tiñete el pelo atrevete a hacerlo
oh,oh,oh quiero ser libre,sentir como me siento....hombre,me siento como una mujer!!!!!(man,i feel like a woman)
kisses,silvia.
p.d: SHANIA, WHEN THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO RELEASE YOUR NEW ALBUM?....hehehe now i know the answer...after have her baby so CONGRATULATIONS MUTT AND SHANIA.
benperkins
06-11-2001, 10:03am
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Ben
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You've got a way it seems
You gave me faith to find my dreams
You'll never know just what that means
Can't you see... you got a way with me
Stephania5
06-11-2001, 10:20am
You're right Carol. That is something we should think about. We should realize how lucky we are to have who we have in our lives. And everytime something like this happens, we have to remember this.
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ShaniaFanForever
06-11-2001, 11:01am
Well 3 years ago when i was only 13 a guy died in my grade http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif He suffered a massive asthma attack and just everyone was in such shock. He was the nicest guy, and we were all wondering why HE had to die. Nearly all our school attended his funeral and our grade standed either side of the road while the car with him in it drove away. Oh god, it was such a terrible day http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif
Then that same year a girl was murdered in our town and it was just unbelievable. She was missing for a couple of days and then a man walking his dog found her in long grass NOT TOO FAR FROM MY HOME!! I mean I live in a small town and people were so shocked because something had never happened like that before, and no one thought it would ever happen here. The scarey thing is they still haven't found the killer after all these years http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif
Ok I will make the next two shorter I think...
Well the next year a guy in a grade above me died from some kind of cancer. Also in that same year one of my mum's good friends son died in a car accident. I remember that he went on life support but they eventually turned it off.
You see it was quite a two years I must say. These 4 people were so young, they didn't deserve to die.
I mean it really made me think how lucky I am. I know people dying is sad but people my age, well its just terrible!!
Sorry it's so long but I felt like telling you all this.
Shania's Fan Forever
xo
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I'd lie for you ~
Walk the wire for you ~
Yeah I'd die for you ~
(Everything I do)I do it for you -Bryan Adams
samantha t
06-11-2001, 11:41am
Wow this is so scarey..I HATE death...I'm afraid of death!! GGRR!! I remember in grade 4... I was like 8 or 9....My friend's mom died of cancer..and he was so sad...and we all went to her funeral..He invited our class..that was the first funeral I went to and I couldn't sleep for nights..it was so scarey..seeing him at the funeral looking at his mom, just lying there in the coffin....I didn't even have the courage to go up to him or to see his mom..I was so sad..he was so sad..And his parents were divorced so I guess he moved in with his dad..he left our school. It was soo sad..I mean I can't imagine how I would feel! He was so brave! He wasn't even crying! When he saw us he smiled and waved at the class as he was carrying his mom's coffin with the other men to the front of the church. So sweet.. I felt so bad!!
And you know what also really scared me? Princess Dians's death.OMG I COULD NOT SLEEP FOR WEEKS!! God..I didn't even know her right..but then that night I saw the crash on the news..and I just was glued to the television waiting for more news while they talked about her life and showed pictures and stuff...and then they said she died in the hospital..I started crying! I didn't sleep the whole night! She was really beautiful!And then they showed her funeral on TV at like 4 in the morning (cause it was live from England or w/e, I got to sad so I went back to bed cause I couldn't take it anymore! AND I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW HER! http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif
Jasmin
06-11-2001, 11:55am
I saw a pic of Diana once, you know the one the paparazzi took when she was lying dead in the car! Of course I didn´t search for it, I found it by mistake! And I can tell you I wouldn´t want to see it again, it´s terrible! http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif
Jasmin
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"But every fool´s a lonely fool and such a fool am I. `Cause every night I think of you and every night I die..."
We miss you, Shania!!! Please come back soon!!!
CONGRATULATIONS TO YOUR BABY!!!
samantha t
06-11-2001, 11:56am
OMG!!U SAW HER DEAD?!!! OH LORD!! *HEARTATTAcK*
that freaks me about when i find out that someone dies http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif i remember in the hospital when me and my mom went to go visit my great grandma my mom told me to come up and stand beside my great grandmas hopital bed so that my great grandma knew that i was there. so i went and stood by her bed and she was kinda blind in the eye that i was closest too so she couldn't see me.so i held her hand and i remember it being cold and it was like a blue and purple hand and it was shakeing and i got scared and my face started to have tears running down so i went to go sit down and i will never forget that night.So when tarrah (my sister)came home crying that a girl from her school had a brain tumour that was scary.because i hate seeing people so sad or in pain.so i think about my life and all the bad things i have done and it tells me that i should not act so dumb most of the time and mylife isn't bad at all.i just want all the young people in the world to stop dying.
Baby Mutt
06-11-2001, 3:47pm
i don't know what to say, only
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-Vale-
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SCHOOL IS FINISHED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!
I,m Very Sorry to hear Carol.
My Condolances To, You, Her, His Family and Freinds and you're Freinds, Family and Freinds.
I,m Very Sorry i dont know what to say...
If you need anything just give a Ring-a-Ling-Ding, ok.
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Ranger; Never Shall I Fail My Comrades.
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Semper Fidelis.
You're totaly right Carol...we should cherish our life!!! Coz we can die and lost ppl we love at any moment!!!
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This world is scary i agree with you people where you don't know when you are going to die or lose somebody so you have to TRY to get along with everyone.People can even die when you least expect it that is what is scary about this world http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif
manu_georgine
06-11-2001, 5:42pm
My little cousin died when he was 7, he fell off the cliffs. He had a down syndrome and he was the sweetest little kid ever. I agree with what you said Carol, except that I think we shouldn't compare people who die because they want to and people who die when they were full of life.
People who want to live shouldn't die. It's not fair. These stories are so sad... http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif
~Manu~
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There's a pain in her heart, she's trying so hard to unwind
Makes her cry in the night, when visions so real make her blind
Wants to break through the the fear
Erasing the scars from within
Start a new kind of being - she's down and she's praying again
Your stories are all very, very sad and terrible, too. http://www.shaniaforums.com/frown.gif And you were all right what you said. We should live in the moment...try it at least.
Marine, thanks, you're a cutie! I'm okay actually...it just gets me when I think of that girl. I'm so terribly sorry for her. I wish I could go over (she lives near me) and give her a hug. But I don't know her THAT well, lol...
Take care all!
~Carol~
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"I can't deny a passion for you, as long as I try it always breaks through. I'm missing you crazy, it's breaking me down..." I MISS YOU, SHANIA!!!
iloveshania
06-12-2001, 12:51pm
It is very sad to see anyone die! I lost my Oma and Opa when I was very young, but atleast they had lived full happy lives! I have lost many friends since then who were not so lucky!
When I was 8 a good friend of my brothers put a shotgun in his mouth and pulled the trigger! He was 12 years old! I don't think that people kill themselves because they want to die! They kill themselves because it hurts to much to live! I think that is just as sad as someone dying in an accident!
Anyway, I agree that we should cherish each moment, because life is a beautiful gift and nomatter how bad things seem at times there is always a brighter day just around the corner! Hold on to love, hold on to friends and most important hold on to life!
Monica XOX
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When the storm clouds gather, turn to me and I'll be your umbrella! When the darkness surrounds you, turn to me and I will be your light! When your burden is heavy and you feel weak, reach out to me and I will be your strength! A friend is always just a heartbeat away!
La Diablesa
06-12-2001, 12:56pm
Moni,i've missed so much here and i've missed your thought here too http://www.shaniaforums.com/love.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/love.gif http://www.shaniaforums.com/love.gif
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oh,oh,oh,me vuelvo totalmente loca-olvida que soy una señorita-camisa de hombre-falda corta.
oh,oh,oh,realmente soy salvaje-siiii lo hago con estilo-oh,oh,oh pasa a la accion,siente la atraccion,tiñete el pelo atrevete a hacerlo
oh,oh,oh quiero ser libre,sentir como me siento....hombre,me siento como una mujer!!!!!(man,i feel like a woman)
kisses,silvia.
p.d: SHANIA, WHEN THE HELL ARE YOU GOING TO RELEASE YOUR NEW ALBUM?....hehehe now i know the answer...after have her baby so CONGRATULATIONS MUTT AND SHANIA.
<font face="Arial, Verdana" size="2">Originally posted by iloveshania:
It is very sad to see anyone die! I lost my Oma and Opa when I was very young, but atleast they had lived full happy lives! I have lost many friends since then who were not so lucky!
When I was 8 a good friend of my brothers put a shotgun in his mouth and pulled the trigger! He was 12 years old! I don't think that people kill themselves because they want to die! They kill themselves because it hurts to much to live! I think that is just as sad as someone dying in an accident!
Anyway, I agree that we should cherish each moment, because life is a beautiful gift and nomatter how bad things seem at times there is always a brighter day just around the corner! Hold on to love, hold on to friends and most important hold on to life!
Monica XOX
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Whoa....He shot himself with a SHOTGUN.?....Thats Heavy Man.....
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U.ncle
S.am's
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C.hildren
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Ranger; Never Shall I Fail My Comrades.
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Semper Fidelis.
manu_georgine
06-12-2001, 4:51pm
<font face="Arial, Verdana" size="2">Originally posted by iloveshania:
I don't think that people kill themselves because they want to die! They kill themselves because it hurts to much to live! I think that is just as sad as someone dying in an accident!
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Yeah isn't it?
~Melanu~
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There's a pain in her heart, she's trying so hard to unwind
Makes her cry in the night, when visions so real make her blind
Wants to break through the the fear
Erasing the scars from within
Start a new kind of being - she's down and she's praying again
You're absolutely wright,Carol.I've lost a lot of family the past 15 years.It's always sad to lose some one.It is so deffinet.they die,and you will never see them again.Only in your memorie.It's sad for the ones who stay behind.They have to deal with a lot of pain.But for them life goes on,and time will eas a lot of pain.
They say dieing is a part of life.
And we are all going to reach that point,soon or late.I hope it will be late.But that is not up to us.When our time comes,it comes.And there is nothing we can do about.A life can end in a heartbeat.
This is something you should not think about to often.You better think about nice things,like we are all going to reach at least the 100. http://www.shaniaforums.com/smile.gif
Frank.
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