I need help... not mentally like ya'll want though. :p

[canoilers]

I need some good gift ideas, can you guys help me out there. She's a woman if that makes a difference. I need the perfect gift to give her but have no clue as to what.

[AdorableEilleen]

Gez as another fella probably in the same category as yourself on this one I don't think I could help. Hopefully one of the fine and decent ladies here can help. :D

Just get her Shania By Stetson! ;) Every woman should be satsified with that! :hide:

[SHANIANUTS!]

...is she a shanianut?

[canoilers]

She used to be, she's the reason I became a nut. She's not anymore, otherwise this could be alot easier. She used to watch CMT 24/7 almost 365, but she doesn't do that anymore. I got her COO for Christmas the year it came out, at the time she was dying to have it. She doesn't like country anymore, I wonder why she changed.

[orchestragirl]

I'm a woman, so I might have some good advice on this. First though, I'd need to know your price range, maybe some of her interests, and what your relationship with her is (friend, girlfriend, wife, coworker, etc.). For now though, I have some quick suggestions. You can never go wrong with jewelry, everyone knows that, lol! Even if she's not a Shania fan anymore, the perfume still smells good and she'll probably like it or the shimmer lotion anyway. Third, do you know of a store called bath and body works where you're at? If you do, then go there. There are alot of great smelling things that women love.

Hold on, and I might think of some more later. The info I asked for would really help to know too. :)

[canoilers]

She is a friend and a very close one at that. The price really doesn't matter, she's more than worth it. I've got her a couple of thing already. I got her an MP3 player and for her birthday I got her a Gift card and beauty kit thingy. I'd like to get her something else though. :p

[Blue_Firefly]

Jewelry...can't go wrong with that. Diamond stud earrings are always a winner :)

[canoilers]

The problem with that though is I don't think her boyfriend would like that. :p

[SevenUp!]

I didn't realize Krista had a boyfriend. :p

[canoilers]

I don't realize how she couldn't, she's probably got guys knocking on her door by the boat load. :p

She doesn't even compare to Nik though, nobody does.

[SevenUp!]

lol!

Jenn's right though, jewelry is a good way to go...I gave a heart shaped pendant with a little saying on it to a girl once that would only mean something to her. And it did, because she still has it.

[canoilers]

Okay I'm going to do it, thats what I'll do then. :D Thank you everybody who helped me out with my problem. :love: :kiss: :hugs:

[canoilers]

Oh man I can't wait until I can give her the stuff, thats gonna be so awesome.

[Blue_Firefly]

Just dont give her a diamond ring...

[canoilers]

No! I defiantly won't be doing that anytime soon. She is in my heart and I do love her so, but I think that might be pushing things alittle bit. :p

[AdorableEilleen]

There ya go Sean. All is well now. :great:

Still can't figure why she ain't a country fan anymore. :hmmm:

Oh well... :D

[canoilers]

I don't either, we haven't seen each other in years. I have no idea why she doesn't like it anymore.

[canoilers]

She liked the MP3 player which makes me happy, even happier because she hugged me 5 times for it. I actually got to physically put my arms around her and hold her even if it was only for a minute each time. That makes me so happy I could almost burst.

I hope she likes what I got her for Christmas as much as what I got her for her birthday. Maybe I could get a kiss out of it too, I'd like that very much. One kiss on the lips just to see what that feels like. That would be my perfect Christmas gift. One single kiss to build a dream on.

A Kiss to Build A Dream On- Louis Armstrong.

Gimme a kiss to build a dream on
And my imagination
Will thrive upon that kiss
Sweetheart, I ask no more than this
A Kiss to build a dream on

Give me a kiss before you leave me
and my imagination
will feed my hungry heart
Leave me one thing before we part
A kiss to build a dream on

When I'm alone with my fancies
I'll be with you
Weaving romances
Making believe they're true

Oh, gimme your lips for just a moment
and my imagination
will make that moment live
Give me what you alone can give
A kiss to build a dream on

Gimme a kiss to build a dream on
And my imagination
Will thrive upon that kiss
Sweetheart, I ask no more than this
A Kiss to build a dream on

Give me a kiss before you leave me
and my imagination
will feed my hungry heart
Leave me one thing before we part
A kiss to build a dream on

When I'm alone with my fancies
I'll be with you
Weaving romances
Making believe they're true

Oh, gimme your lips for just a moment
and my imagination
will make that moment live
Give me what you alone can give
A kiss to build a dream on

[canoilers]

I got her earrings, not exactly diamond though. The ones they had left were all kind of tiny. I wanted to get her a pendant but they were kinda small too. Not exactly a good size for pictures of her kids. I was thinking of the pendant so she could keep the two most important things close to her heart. The only gold one they had left was small enough you couldn't get an atom in there let alone a freakin picture. I got her two gold earrings with her Birth stone in them and I hope she likes them. :D :nervous: :dunno:

[canoilers]

Its a Kiss To Build A Dream On from the Great Satchmo himself.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z6k5t1IARPk

[ELEANOR MAW]

IF SHE IS INTO WATER SPORT GET HER A CANOE
IF SHE IS INTO DISCO GIVE HER SOME HOT PANTS
IF SHE IS INTO GOLF BUY YOUR SELF A CRASH HELMET
IF SHE IS INTO HAND GLIDING BUY AS MANY CRASH HELMETS AS POSSIBLE
IF SHE IS INTO CHOCOLATES BUY HER SOME, JUST LET ME KNOW SO I CAN COME AROUND AND HAVE SOME :funny: YUM YUM

[eilleen333]

I got her earrings, not exactly diamond though. The ones they had left were all kind of tiny. I wanted to get her a pendant but they were kinda small too. Not exactly a good size for pictures of her kids. I was thinking of the pendant so she could keep the two most important things close to her heart. The only gold one they had left was small enough you couldn't get an atom in there let alone a freakin picture. I got her two gold earrings with her Birth stone in them and I hope she likes them. :D :nervous: :dunno:


I think that's a great present. It's not about how expensive it is, or who big it is. What matters is that you took the effort to find her something nice, right (I wanted to say this in a diffrent way, but I can't find the words in English :p ) .

[SHANIANUTS!]

I think what matters most is how you treat each other.

[canoilers]

I think that's a great present. It's not about how expensive it is, or who big it is. What matters is that you took the effort to find her something nice, right (I wanted to say this in a diffrent way, but I can't find the words in English :p ) .Thank you for the encouragment.

She didn't like the gift, she hated it in fact. I feel bad now, specially when I tried so hard to find something she would like. I didn't want to screw it up and I did. That takes suckiness to a whole new level of sucking. I wanted to do good and I failed horribly.

I think what matters most is how you treat each other.
I hope so cause cause the gift thing didn't work out like I had planned.

[SHANIANUTS!]

A woman does not normally let on she is disappointed with a gift unless she is trying to send you a message about something more important, possibly your relationship.

[canoilers]

A woman does not normally let on she is disappointed with a gift unless she is trying to send you a message about something more important, possibly your relationship.
Well she didn't tell me she hated it, but I know she did. She thanked me for the gift and gave me a few hugs for it. But after a few hours she told me she remebered she couldn't wear earrings anymore. Maybe its just my paronia kicking in there. I wanted to do good and get her something she really liked. I really didn't want to screw up. I just wanted it to be perfect for her.

[orchestragirl]

No, no, no she just COULDN'T have hated it! It WAS supposed to be perfect, and I'm sure she loved it! You're just paraniod (I hope!) it WILL work out. You have to have faith in that! :)

[canoilers]

Okay I'll keep the faith but only cause you said so. I plan to take back the earrings and get her something else, something she'll like alot better. SO maybe it'll work out in the end after all. :)

[canoilers]

I exchanged the earrings and got her a locket necklace. She laughed when I told her she could either put her kids in it or random sexy women.

[SHANIANUTS!]

Normally women prefer to exchange these kinds of gifts themselves. I guess she is a little different. So you are an item now?

[canoilers]

No she knew I wanted to get her the perfect item, it was her idea I exchange it for her. I eneded up spending way more on it than the earrings.

No we are not an item for now its only in my dreams and prayers. Maybe one day something will happen but that aint today.

[ELEANOR MAW]

No she knew I wanted to get her the perfect item, it was her idea I exchange it for her. I eneded up spending way more on it than the earrings.

No we are not an item for now its only in my dreams and prayers. Maybe one day something will happen but that aint today.YOU NEED TO TAKE UP SINGING LESSONS AND GO AND SING OUTSIDE HER BEDROOM WINDOW ON VALENTINES DAY WITH A ROMANTIC SHANIA TWAIN SONG AND ASK HER IF YOU CAN BE HER ROMEO AND SHE COULD BE YOUR JULIET AND THEN INVITE HER OUT FOR A MEAL AND THEN OFFER HER AN ENGAGEMENT RING.
I WILL HOPE AND PRAY FOR YOU, BEST WISHES ELEANOR

[SHANIANUTS!]

No she knew I wanted to get her the perfect item, it was her idea I exchange it for her. I eneded up spending way more on it than the earrings.

No we are not an item for now its only in my dreams and prayers. Maybe one day something will happen but that aint today.Time waits for no man. If it was meant to be she will let you know. To dream in private and in a fantasy does neither of you any good. Go for it man!

[canoilers]

YOU NEED TO TAKE UP SINGING LESSONS AND GO AND SING OUTSIDE HER BEDROOM WINDOW ON VALENTINES DAY WITH A ROMANTIC SHANIA TWAIN SONG AND ASK HER IF YOU CAN BE HER ROMEO AND SHE COULD BE YOUR JULIET AND THEN INVITE HER OUT FOR A MEAL AND THEN OFFER HER AN ENGAGEMENT RING.
I WILL HOPE AND PRAY FOR YOU, BEST WISHES ELEANORI don't think thats an option there, although its a great idea. I simply don't see it in the cards for us, no matter what I do or how much I care. She got better things to do than deal with me. Probably awhole lot of better options as well.

Time waits for no man. If it was meant to be she will let you know. To dream in private and in a fantasy does neither of you any good. Go for it man!
I already know the answer to that and it was never meant to be. I'm afraid it going to have to remain a private fantasy. I don't see her ever having those feelings for me, I just can't picture it for the life of me. Things like that don't happen to me.

[SHANIANUTS!]

If you are sure why are you prolonging things?

[canoilers]

I don't get what you mean?

[SHANIANUTS!]

Why keep the relationship going if it is going nowhere?

[canoilers]

Why keep the relationship going if it is going nowhere?
Well she is a friend although sometimes it always doesn't feel like she views me the same way. I get the feeling sometimes she's just using me, I don't know what but it feels that way.

[SevenUp!]

I get the feeling sometimes she's just using me, I don't know what but it feels that way.

Yeah it happens.... and sometimes that is better than being ignored totally. :smirk: Sometimes...

[SHANIANUTS!]

Well she is a friend although sometimes it always doesn't feel like she views me the same way. I get the feeling sometimes she's just using me, I don't know what but it feels that way.Why don't you talk this out with her and see what she says?