To our dear friend Terri

[dreamer]

I know things aren't good for you now and I can only hope they get better and say I love and miss you and it hurts me that I can't help so tell me when and iff I can:love::love::love::love:

[faithfully]

Terri come and talk to us if want to, we will all be here for you. I will wait forever for you:love::hugs:

[goinUP]

Terri, I'm not entirely sure what's going on but I hope you're okay and you know you have a ton of great friends waiting for you. Love you. :hugs:

[ShaniaKoukla]

Good luck Terri, hopefully now that we are friends on Facebook you will keep in touch. Take care kiddo.

[StarryShania]

Terri, I'm not entirely sure what's going on but I hope you're okay and you know you have a ton of great friends waiting for you. Love you. :hugs:

I'm not sure either. But, I hope she get's better and then we can all chat with her soon :) Take care Terri x

[faithfully]

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Come and talk to me Terri:)

[mcjessica]

Hey Terri I don't know what's really going on either but I hope you'll be okay. You can always talk to us, we're here for you forever and for always :love::hugs:.

[dreamer]

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HOPE

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:hugs:

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[StarryShania]

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HOPE

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:hugs:

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That's nice of you Misty to post that for Terri.

[taniashain]

Awwww everyone. I love you so much!

Thanks for trying to make me feel better thank you sooo very much. I can't tell you how much this means to me.

[dreamer]

hi hon I wont dwell on the negitive unless you wanna talk I'm here

[faithfully]

Awwww everyone. I love you so much!

Thanks for trying to make me feel better thank you sooo very much. I can't tell you how much this means to me.

:love::love::love::love::love::love::love::love: :love::love::love::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs: :hugs::hugs:
I don't like it when you are hurting:(

[taniashain]

The story: for those who don't know.

My son has had a concussion since Sunday, and he didn't tell anyone until Tuesday. He had memory loss and vision loss and a big migrane. He ran from the doctors on Wednesday afternoon as they were arranging for him to see a neurosurgeon and get a CATscan. He hasn't been seen since.

I've been quite concerned and upset. Last night his teacher spotted him downtown and called to tell me, assuring me the police would be told and he's be home soon. An hour later he made contact with them to say he wasn't dead and he was never coming home.

[goinUP]

Awwww everyone. I love you so much!

Thanks for trying to make me feel better thank you sooo very much. I can't tell you how much this means to me.

Awww I'm so glad you're here!! :bounce: :hugs:

[taniashain]

What most people here don't know is that my son is 15. He has Tourettes and ADHD, PICA and so many other problem he needs meds for. You probably also don't know that I signed him into CAS care over a year ago because he was getting very out of control and the lives of my daughter and myself were in danger. It was the hardest thing I've had to do. I only see him on weekends.

WEll I found out earlier today that none of the agencies supposed to be keeping an eye on him have been talking to each other. A missing persons report was filed Wednesday night, but the police had no leads because no one reported all the sightings and phone calls my son made. I ended up telling them today. That made me mad. Very very mad.

[goinUP]

An hour later he made contact with them to say he wasn't dead and he was never coming home.

:( :cry: He was probably just upset, Terri.

[taniashain]

An Update:
My son called me an hour ago. He's on his way home. His real home here with me. I plan on keeping him here. I can't go into details because the court is involved and I don't know my rights in this regard, but I promise you this. My son wil NEVER go back to care! They have made him worse off than he was before and I'll take on ANYONE and do ANYTHING to protect him from further harm. I will be seeking legal council because I'm sure the court will be involved. I'm not even telling him he's here.

When he gets here Ifirst thing I'm gonna do is hug him and never let him go. Then I'm gonna feed him, and let him sleep in his own bed, where it's warm and safe. In the morning I will tell the police he is here and take him directly to the hospital. I don't know how it will go, they may need to take him back to the residence. I'm sure I can convince them to take us to the hospital first. After that who knows. They may take us back to the residence. If so we'll pick up his stuff and be on our way. If they oppose they'll have to arrest me for something because he is NOT STAYING!

[goinUP]

What most people here don't know is that my son is 15. He has Tourettes and ADHD, PICA and so many other problem he needs meds for. You probably also don't know that I signed him into CAS care over a year ago because he was getting very out of control and the lives of my daughter and myself were in danger. It was the hardest thing I've had to do. I only see him on weekends.

WEll I found out earlier today that none of the agencies supposed to be keeping an eye on him have been talking to each other. A missing persons report was filed Wednesday night, but the police had no leads because no one reported all the sightings and phone calls my son made. I ended up telling them today. That made me mad. Very very mad.

Wow Terri, I had no idea. Is there anything we can do to help?

[faithfully]

An Update:
My son called me an hour ago. He's on his way home. His real home here with me. I plan on keeping him here. I can't go into details because the court is involved and I don't know my rights in this regard, but I promise you this. My son wil NEVER go back to care! They have made him worse off than he was before and I'll take on ANYONE and do ANYTHING to protect him from further harm. I will be seeking legal council because I'm sure the court will be involved. I'm not even telling him he's here.

When he gets here Ifirst thing I'm gonna do is hug him and never let him go. Then I'm gonna feed him, and let him sleep in his own bed, where it's warm and safe. In the morning I will tell the police he is here and take him directly to the hospital. I don't know how it will go, they may need to take him back to the residence. I'm sure I can convince them to take us to the hospital first. After that who knows. They may take us back to the residence. If so we'll pick up his stuff and be on our way. If they oppose they'll have to arrest me for something because he is NOT STAYING!

Too damn right:furious: They can't look after him properly:banghead:

[canoilers]

Wow! I feel for you and I hope everything works out for the best. My thoughts are with you in this time of need.

[dreamer]

An Update:
My son called me an hour ago. He's on his way home. His real home here with me. I plan on keeping him here. I can't go into details because the court is involved and I don't know my rights in this regard, but I promise you this. My son wil NEVER go back to care! They have made him worse off than he was before and I'll take on ANYONE and do ANYTHING to protect him from further harm. I will be seeking legal council because I'm sure the court will be involved. I'm not even telling him he's here.

When he gets here Ifirst thing I'm gonna do is hug him and never let him go. Then I'm gonna feed him, and let him sleep in his own bed, where it's warm and safe. In the morning I will tell the police he is here and take him directly to the hospital. I don't know how it will go, they may need to take him back to the residence. I'm sure I can convince them to take us to the hospital first. After that who knows. They may take us back to the residence. If so we'll pick up his stuff and be on our way. If they oppose they'll have to arrest me for something because he is NOT STAYING!

OMG!!!*I am so happy for you I am crying for joy!!!!!!!*:cry::cry::cry::love::love::love::love: :love::love::love::hugs:

[goinUP]

An Update:
My son called me an hour ago. He's on his way home. His real home here with me. I plan on keeping him here. I can't go into details because the court is involved and I don't know my rights in this regard, but I promise you this. My son wil NEVER go back to care! They have made him worse off than he was before and I'll take on ANYONE and do ANYTHING to protect him from further harm. I will be seeking legal council because I'm sure the court will be involved. I'm not even telling him he's here.

When he gets here Ifirst thing I'm gonna do is hug him and never let him go. Then I'm gonna feed him, and let him sleep in his own bed, where it's warm and safe. In the morning I will tell the police he is here and take him directly to the hospital. I don't know how it will go, they may need to take him back to the residence. I'm sure I can convince them to take us to the hospital first. After that who knows. They may take us back to the residence. If so we'll pick up his stuff and be on our way. If they oppose they'll have to arrest me for something because he is NOT STAYING!

OMG Terri....wow. I don't even know what to say, except that please be careful and I hope you don't get arrested. :( I hope everything gets better for you and please know that you can always talk to us. We're here and always will be. :hugs:

[dreamer]

OMG Terri....wow. I don't even know what to say, except that please be careful and I hope you don't get arrested. :( I hope everything gets better for you and please know that you can always talk to us. We're here and always will be. :hugs:

I'll fly down Up there just to run 'em over with my powerchair if you want ANYTIME SWEETIE and I mean it:love::cry::love:

[faithfully]

I'll fly down Up there just to run 'em over with my powerchair if you want ANYTIME SWEETIE and I mean it:love::cry::love:

you tanker:funny: aye as long as you are wearing a tanktop which has Shania Twain written on it:biglaugh::biglaugh::biglaugh:

[dreamer]

I wouldn't were anything but my "I'm invincable" Shania gear!

[goinUP]

I'll fly down Up there just to run 'em over with my powerchair if you want ANYTIME SWEETIE and I mean it:love::cry::love:

Take me with you! I'll bash them with my violin!

[dreamer]

Take me with you! I'll bash them with my violin!

you got it! Terri I will do some reseach on rights in this kind of matter and get back to you ASAP ok my family is full of lawyers* I wont tell them who just hpatheticals ok*:love:

[taniashain]

Thanks everyone. I'm not exactly sure what I will need to do, or if I'm breaking any laws. I don't think I am. I'm sure I have rights here, I am still his mother. If things go bad, you can make damn sure I'll cry bloody murder! This city will know they screwed up. I've been fighting with these people for years, jumping through hoops for them. They've invaded my life, because the law says they're allowed to. As far as I'm concerned they've failed in doing their job. They failed my son. We may have had our problems, but my son has changed, he's grown, and we are very close now. I know him better than anyone. My boy is coming home for good!

[taniashain]

you got it! Terri I will do some reseach on rights in this kind of matter and get back to you ASAP ok my family is full of lawyers* I wont tell them who just hpatheticals ok*:love:

That would be greatly appreciated Misty! Because it's a weekend, there really isn't anyone I could call for advice. I need to have all my ducks in a row and everything ready and clarified before I proceed. I have no choice right now but to carry on as I see fit to do what I know is the right thing for my son.

[goinUP]

Thanks everyone. I'm not exactly sure what I will need to do, or if I'm breaking any laws. I don't think I am. I'm sure I have rights here, I am still his mother. If things go bad, you can make damn sure I'll cry bloody murder! This city will know they screwed up. I've been fighting with these people for years, jumping through hoops for them. They've invaded my life, because the law says they're allowed to. As far as I'm concerned they've failed in doing their job. They failed my son. We may have had our problems, but my son has changed, he's grown, and we are very close now. I know him better than anyone. My boy is coming home for good!

You go girl!

[dreamer]

That would be greatly appreciated Misty! Because it's a weekend, there really isn't anyone I could call for advice. I need to have all my ducks in a row and everything ready and clarified before I proceed. I have no choice right now but to carry on as I see fit to do what I know is the right thing for my son.

I'll pm you tommorrow

[taniashain]

Anything you can find will be helpfull. Thank You Misty.

[jimmysgirl25]

Terri i am so sorry to hear your heart breaking news bout your son i am so glad to hear he is back in your care how hard it must be for you well i am always here for you as i have been through some rough times in my life and try my hardest as a good friend to be there for whenever my friends need me please takecare all my love sharon

[Alex]

Ouw Terri. I'm so sorry to hear all about the troubles you've been having.

You will see all your problems will be solved so soon when you imagine it the less, you're a good and great person who deserves the best, to you and your family :)

:hugs:

[taniashain]

Thank you to all of you. Some of you I know better than others, but that didn't stop you from caring. It means alot to me. I don't have anyone at home to lean on, I'm used to pushing through on my own. It's very hard to handle at times.

All your kind words make me feel much better. Thankyou.

[taniashain]

Good luck Terri, hopefully now that we are friends on Facebook you will keep in touch. Take care kiddo.

Yeah, I had to create an account there today. Thanks for finding me, I don't know how you did! My son's on facebook and I was trying to see if I could find if he posted to anyone where he was. I was sooo lost there, I find it confusing. I did the same thing with myspace, looking for him. I can't figure it out either, though I didn't try really hard. I wasn't in the mood to learn new things, if you know what I mean.

[SevenUp!]

I don't have anyone at home to lean on

That's what we're here for Terri, so lean away. :hugs:

I am sorry to hear how badly things progressed. Thank God he's back with you now, where he belongs and hopefully stays. I hope things get better for you both very soon.

[Shaniabomber99]

Terri only just saw there...sending positive thoughts and prayers to your way hun

Carley

[ShaniaKoukla]

I hope your son gets better and that your legal situation works in your favour. You are truly a survivor. Keep your head held high. *Hugs*

[Alex]

That's what we're here for Terri, so lean away. :hugs:


Good say! We're here to support you in everything because we love you swetie :love:

[dreamer]

I pmed you terri!

[mcjessica]

Thank you to all of you. Some of you I know better than others, but that didn't stop you from caring. It means alot to me. I don't have anyone at home to lean on, I'm used to pushing through on my own. It's very hard to handle at times.

All your kind words make me feel much better. Thankyou.

We're always here for you Terri! :love::hugs:

[StarryShania]

Terri, how are you doing ?

[dreamer]

she's having trouble again last I heard:(

[faithfully]

she's having trouble again last I heard:(

Shes okay Misty, I was talking to her last night and today:]

[dreamer]

is her son home? after he ran from school

[StarryShania]

Okay thanks for the update, glad she is atleast a bit better.

[faithfully]

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[dreamer]

such an angel she is I can't stop looking at the pic I took of her

[taniashain]

Thank you Terri http://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gifhttp://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gifhttp://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gifhttp://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gifhttp://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gifhttp://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gifhttp://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gifhttp://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gif

Thank :love::love::love::D:D:D;)YouStevie

such an angel she is I can't stop looking at the pic I took of her


Awww, thanks sweetie. I love you too :hugs:

What picture of me? I'd love to see it.:)

[faithfully]

I love you Terrihttp://i204.photobucket.com/albums/bb286/tanktopshania/newheartbeat.gif and I miss you:cry:
I'll be thinking of you when I go to sleep now:cry:

[dreamer]

your av is soooooooooooo cute

[faithfully]

your av is soooooooooooo cute
Its a reminder of good times:love:

[dreamer]

;) I know she's great

[faithfully]

I wonder where Terri is?:uhh:

[dreamer]

:dunno:

[faithfully]

:dunno:
She was making dinner 3 hours ago, now shes probably getting the kids to bed and getting the dishes done. I phoned her around 12 midnight here(7pm her time). She hasn't had a Timmies in a wee while since I left her;)

[dreamer]

so sad!

[faithfully]

so sad!
:uhh: me leaving her?

[dreamer]

that you can't be together

[faithfully]

that you can't be together
True;)