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dreamer
09-18-2007, 10:12pm
I was taking back bottles and cans to recycle and get the deposite back today, and when I came out soaked in beer,back-wash, and soda the sky was heavey with anguish,gray and depressed. I took my newly earned six Dollars and set it aside for my "Shania's Next Tour" fund. I have hope, not that it is justified, that I will go to nearly every if not every concert on her next tour, which will come soon enough. Unlike on the start of my trip I put my headphones on and turned on my MP3 player skipping to Home Ain't Where His Heart Is (Anymore) I could feel and hear life and passion in that song, which I rarely listen to, so I turned it up all the way and went with the groove.
I was having one of those moments as a fan where you realize why you fell in love with an artist, and it was all I could do to not think of her "fans" leaving her. I have been depressed the last few days when I go to Shania websites and hear how she is hurting her career*which I must say the wait is killing me too* from fans. I heard so many people saying they thought Shania wasn't happy as an artist and it made my stomach churn. Was I never going to hear Shania like I heard her sing "God Bless The Child" even if she did come back "soon?" I thought of last night when this concept of Shania's down right displeasure and the droves of fans leaving her made me so sick I crawled in bed, played "she's Not Just a Pretty Face, and I Ain't Goin Down and prayed to god that She wasn't truly unhappy and that if She was, maybe I could Share with her the power her music had given me maybe I could help her find her nyche again. Even though I am not sure where I Stand on the Idea of god, I prayed until my head ached and I fell asleep thinking "if there is one thing I need in my life from you, it isn't a cure fore Cerebral Palsy or A million dollars to pay for all the doctors I see, God, please don't let Shania dissapper from my life not Now."
I was Brought back to the present with a feeling from my past. I could feel Myself back in the small town of Hermiston, getting in my dads truck freezing at 60 degrees wearing 3 layers. Happy, in a sort of not really but at least not super unhappy way. I could feel myself wondering if dad would catch me throwing away my snack that day, fear and hopelessness, tears that I crield because my insides hurt and my outsides hurt, bone on skin. I wanted to end it but The voice kept making me do those horrible things. Exercising for 3 hours not eating more then 450 calories a day.My body ached, I was always freezing, food was frightening deep down to my core.It didn't matter that my organs were being consumed by my body for nutrients according to a specialist, or that my period stoped, or even that no one, not even daddy, could so much as look at me.
I had Dropped from existance and mutated into this moster with dried dead Skin and bones so close against it I couldn't sit because of the pain, My hair was falling out and my skin was yellow. I had stopped talking and listened to NPR all the time.
I didn't even eat real food anymore living of 300 calorie healthy choice meals and reduced sugar instant oatmeal.
I phased back into reality and time for a split second and into Shania wispering "Secrets" on the Celine Dion song "if Walls Could Talk"* I have it on there for Shania's backing Vocals and the fact that Mutt helped write it* I crossed the street falling into Shania's passion and lost myself there.
The only Time I thought of Shania was after all my exercise and "eating" was done and I was alone in my room looking at a poster I made of her when I was happy, I stared at it for hours in silence after My homework was done, but it never really registered, I was as cold and alone and trapped as the wall it was tacked up on, and I Just wanted out.
As Oblivious and cold hearted as I had become, I wanted to live. Deep down somewhere where the happy girl who made the Shania Clippings poster was, I wanted to go let her free. I took the smallest step I could and turned on my cd player so I wouldn't be alone, I didn't know what cd was in because it had been so long but anything was better then silence and NPR had instumental music at night . I needed a voice.
When the number of tracks showed even I had to smile, it was Shania's UP! CD. I couldn't bring myself to pick a track to listen to, it was all so upbeat and I Just didn't feel that hopeful. I skipped through the tracks and pushed play with my eyes shut.
I Listened to "Not Just A Pretty Face" and felt my hope flicker. When it was over I needed something else, and again went through the tracks randomly pushing play. Within the time that "I ain't going down" played I believed I could eat, a whole half a tuna sandwich, without mirical Whip. I was so sure, until the song ended. But for the first time I had hope that maybe tommorrow wouldn't be so bad. Dieing wasn't the only way out. Maybe tommorrow I could eat.
I never did eat, and got sicker to the point I was forcable hospitalized and made to eat. After that First meal my father had to hold me to the bed as I yelled and sobbed to keep me from exercising. When The nurse asked me to take a pill, I did for two reasons, My dad, and Shania.
I could see the sky and taste the air and hear the people, I was alive, I was Misty, and I was truly home. As I crossed the street and went into the Alley of my home I thought again of the unrest with Shania's fans. I know She's alive, and today I saw pictures of her smiling and I am thankful. I Still want new music from her so bad it hurts and the chance to thank her for walking with me through my hell. But waiting doesn't seem so hard to do anymore

ShaniaKoukla
09-18-2007, 10:23pm
What can I say besides...wow.

I was taking back bottles and cans to recycle and get the deposite back today, and when I came out soaked in beer,back-wash, and soda the sky was heavey with anguish,gray and depressed. I took my newly earned six Dollars and set it aside for my "Shania's Next Tour" fund. I have hope, not that it is justified, that I will go to nearly every if not every concert on her next tour, which will come soon enough. Unlike on the start of my trip I put my headphones on and turned on my MP3 player skipping to Home Ain't Where His Heart Is (Anymore) I could feel and hear life and passion in that song, which I rarely listen to, so I turned it up all the way and went with the groove.
I was having one of those moments as a fan where you realize why you fell in love with an artist, and it was all I could do to not think of her "fans" leaving her. I have been depressed the last few days when I go to Shania websites and hear how she is hurting her career*which I must say the wait is killing me too* from fans. I heard so many people saying they thought Shania wasn't happy as an artist and it made my stomach churn. Was I never going to hear Shania like I heard her sing "God Bless The Child" even if she did come back "soon?" I thought of last night when this concept of Shania's down right displeasure and the droves of fans leaving her made me so sick I crawled in bed, played "she's Not Just a Pretty Face, and I Ain't Goin Down and prayed to god that She wasn't truly unhappy and that if She was, maybe I could Share with her the power her music had given me maybe I could help her find her nyche again. Even though I am not sure where I Stand on the Idea of god, I prayed until my head ached and I fell asleep thinking "if there is one thing I need in my life from you, it isn't a cure fore Cerebral Palsy or A million dollars to pay for all the doctors I see, God, please don't let Shania dissapper from my life not Now."
I was Brought back to the present with a feeling from my past. I could feel Myself back in the small town of Hermiston, getting in my dads truck freezing at 60 degrees wearing 3 layers. Happy, in a sort of not really but at least not super unhappy way. I could feel myself wondering if dad would catch me throwing away my snack that day, fear and hopelessness, tears that I crield because my insides hurt and my outsides hurt, bone on skin. I wanted to end it but The voice kept making me do those horrible things. Exercising for 3 hours not eating more then 450 calories a day.My body ached, I was always freezing, food was frightening deep down to my core.It didn't matter that my organs were being consumed by my body for nutrients according to a specialist, or that my period stoped, or even that no one, not even daddy, could so much as look at me.
I had Dropped from existance and mutated into this moster with dried dead Skin and bones so close against it I couldn't sit because of the pain, My hair was falling out and my skin was yellow. I had stopped talking and listened to NPR all the time.
I didn't even eat real food anymore living of 300 calorie healthy choice meals and reduced sugar instant oatmeal.
I phased back into reality and time for a split second and into Shania wispering "Secrets" on the Celine Dion song "if Walls Could Talk"* I have it on there for Shania's backing Vocals and the fact that Mutt helped write it* I crossed the street falling into Shania's passion and lost myself there.
The only Time I thought of Shania was after all my exercise and "eating" was done and I was alone in my room looking at a poster I made of her when I was happy, I stared at it for hours in silence after My homework was done, but it never really registered, I was as cold and alone and trapped as the wall it was tacked up on, and I Just wanted out.
As Oblivious and cold hearted as I had become, I wanted to live. Deep down somewhere where the happy girl who made the Shania Clippings poster was, I wanted to go let her free. I took the smallest step I could and turned on my cd player so I wouldn't be alone, I didn't know what cd was in because it had been so long but anything was better then silence and NPR had instumental music at night . I needed a voice.
When the number of tracks showed even I had to smile, it was Shania's UP! CD. I couldn't bring myself to pick a track to listen to, it was all so upbeat and I Just didn't feel that hopeful. I skipped through the tracks and pushed play with my eyes shut.
I Listened to "Not Just A Pretty Face" and felt my hope flicker. When it was over I needed something else, and again went through the tracks randomly pushing play. Within the time that "I ain't going down" played I believed I could eat, a whole half a tuna sandwich, without mirical Whip. I was so sure, until the song ended. But for the first time I had hope that maybe tommorrow wouldn't be so bad. Dieing wasn't the only way out. Maybe tommorrow I could eat.
I never did eat, and got sicker to the point I was forcable hospitalized and made to eat. After that First meal my father had to hold me to the bed as I yelled and sobbed to keep me from exercising. When The nurse asked me to take a pill, I did for two reasons, My dad, and Shania.
I could see the sky and taste the air and hear the people, I was alive, I was Misty, and I was truly home. As I crossed the street and went into the Alley of my home I thought again of the unrest with Shania's fans. I know She's alive, and today I saw pictures of her smiling and I am thankful. I Still want new music from her so bad it hurts and the chance to thank her for walking with me through my hell. But waiting doesn't seem so hard to do anymore

dreamer
09-18-2007, 10:26pm
I don't know where it came from...

I will always love Shania Twain, wherever she is in her life.

orchestragirl
09-18-2007, 10:33pm
Wow, that was great Misty, as always! I agree when you say "I will always love Shania Twain, wherever she is in her life." It's so rare when a singer can make someone feel all the different ways Shania makes her fans feel. *if things go as planned, I may expand upon that thought.*

mcjessica
09-18-2007, 10:56pm
You're truly an amazing person and writer Misty!

orchestragirl
09-18-2007, 11:01pm
You're truly an amazing person and writer Misty!

Yes, she is. :love:

Nadia
09-18-2007, 11:05pm
I will always love Shania Twain, wherever she is in her life,too.
I think all of us will.

Troll
09-18-2007, 11:10pm
Great stuff Misty

ShaniaKoukla
09-18-2007, 11:26pm
Other than her music, I resonated towards our beloved Shania because she is the epitomy of survival. Someone I could look up to in high school when I had low self-esteem. With Shania I could say if she could deal with all that she had to deal with and go that far in life so can I.

In grade 10 Media class we had to produce a project on our favourite artist and naturally I chose Shania back when she was not popular. We had to play a song during this presentation and I played 'Any Man of Mine' and my classmates laughed at the song and at me for choosing her as my favourite artist. I did not let them get to me because within me I knew that my reasons for admiring Shania had more depth than any of the other artists that were 'cooler.' That for me was the day that I started to gain self-esteem because I stood up for something I believed in and didn't let anyone get in my way. I was in fact on my way.

mcjessica
09-19-2007, 12:16am
Other than her music, I resonated towards our beloved Shania because she is the epitomy of survival. Someone I could look up to in high school when I had low self-esteem. With Shania I could say if she could deal with all that she had to deal with and go that far in life so can I.

In grade 10 Media class we had to produce a project on our favourite artist and naturally I chose Shania back when she was not popular. We had to play a song during this presentation and I played 'Any Man of Mine' and my classmates laughed at the song and at me for choosing her as my favourite artist. I did not let them get to me because within me I knew that my reasons for admiring Shania had more depth than any of the other artists that were 'cooler.' That for me was the day that I started to gain self-esteem because I stood up for something I believed in and didn't let anyone get in my way. I was in fact on my way.

Aw awesome story! I think it's so amazing how she's managed to touch the lives of so many people in so many different ways. That's what I love about (great) music, by any artist really. It really connects people and puts them in touch with one another.

Kristian
09-19-2007, 12:19am
Nice words there, you should write a book ;)

orchestragirl
09-19-2007, 12:20am
Nice words there, you should write a book ;)


She has written two books.

www.freewebs.com/dreambigworkharder

dreamer
09-19-2007, 12:37am
Other than her music, I resonated towards our beloved Shania because she is the epitomy of survival. Someone I could look up to in high school when I had low self-esteem. With Shania I could say if she could deal with all that she had to deal with and go that far in life so can I.

In grade 10 Media class we had to produce a project on our favourite artist and naturally I chose Shania back when she was not popular. We had to play a song during this presentation and I played 'Any Man of Mine' and my classmates laughed at the song and at me for choosing her as my favourite artist. I did not let them get to me because within me I knew that my reasons for admiring Shania had more depth than any of the other artists that were 'cooler.' That for me was the day that I started to gain self-esteem because I stood up for something I believed in and didn't let anyone get in my way. I was in fact on my way.

I was in 8th grad when UP! came out and there was a teacher who let us bring music to play on his nice cd player, I brought it in *the red version* and before Shania even sang a word they all bood me and yelled to turn it off... and they just kept doing it*knowing she was my hero* but I played it throught that class and anytime I could incooparate Shania with school I did even though everytime they were just as cruel

ShaniaKoukla
09-19-2007, 12:42am
I was in 8th grad when UP! came out and there was a teacher who let us bring music to play on his nice cd player, I brought it in *the red version* and before Shania even sang a word they all bood me and yelled to turn it off... and they just kept doing it*knowing she was my hero* but I played it throught that class and anytime I could incooparate Shania with school I did even though everytime they were just as cruel

Kids can be so cruel huh. Sounds like we have similar stories.

dreamer
09-19-2007, 12:47am
at least in that way I hope you've never experinced Anorexia eds suck

ShaniaKoukla
09-19-2007, 12:50am
No I could never be anorexic, I love donuts too much.

mcjessica
09-19-2007, 12:51am
haha I've had similar experiences as well, but I have learned that with most things you just have to laugh at how ignorant people can be. One thing I've never been able to do is critisize someone else's taste in music, because that's exactly what it is - someone's personal taste and preference (unless of course all they listen to is what's popular at the moment because then their opinion of what good music is, is basically someone else's opinion of what good music is.) When people make comments about my taste in music I just laugh because I know that they clearly have no idea what they're talking about :funny:.

dreamer
09-19-2007, 1:04am
I never judge peoples taste or any Genre because I used to hate country music because my family does it was by luck or fate tha t I was forced to listen*until I heard the FTMO intro then I was hooked* the girl who showed me Shania never believed in me either though, Ironic:smirk:

mcjessica
09-19-2007, 1:09am
Yeah I used to hate country too. Seriously, you should have met me before I started listeing to Shania. The only country songs I had on my iPod was a Dixie Chicks song and some Shania songs and I objected to the fact that it was country. Now I love country music and I have more country songs than most other genres on my iPod. I think that alone just goes to show you what can happen if you open up your mind.

dreamer
09-19-2007, 1:15am
No I could never be anorexic, I love donuts too much.

I loved chips popcorn doughnuts cookie pop and candy and it happened to me